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I stumbled in here so many years ago, wide eyed, shocked and flabbergasted. I didn't rattle easily then, certainly even less now. I've been guided and have guided in return. So many wonderful people have enlightened and enriched my journey through the dark forest that is BDSM.
If there is one most important lesson that I have learned it is how normal most of us are. We've suppressed and hidden our various kinks and fetishes in order to "fit in" to a larger society. But, I've come to pity the vanilla people in the vanilla world.
They, by upbringing, or religion, or culture or surrounding have said that our extremely natural desires are wrong. Are evil. Are to be avoided, banished or subdued. If they had their way, they'd send us all to an institution of some type.
I look forward to being locked up with the vast majority of you. What fun we will have! All of us, no longer chained by societal rules and regulations, free to spank and be spanked, or whatever it is that makes us so remarkably "different", or as I call us, normal.
Our "taboo" should be enjoyed by all of society, I truly think it would help them. It is so natural, as the highest of the known species on this planet, to enjoy sex and sexuality. It is our gift from the Creator(s) - - sex for pleasure AND procreation. Sex for the sake of sex and sex with a twist or a turn because it is what we seek to make the most of our individual experiences.
We're in a place here where we can find our pleasure(s) with others who are in touch with their own sexualities and kink. And share them.
My "scene" is domination. It is who I am, to my very core. I have learned it is who I always was, but until stumbling in and taking the hand of my most dearest, I had no idea how deep inside my psyche it was. I had no idea how strong it was and how to harness it and tame it.
Thank you greatly, to you TB for your guiding me down several of the trails of this dark and sometimes scary forest. May the circumstances that have kept us apart never outweigh our short time together, the lessons learned and taught, the laughs and tears, the love and the friendship. YOU inspired me and helped me find myself, keeping me forever in your debt, my most dearest. You are loved by many and so deeply cherished by me. May your journey be fruitful, wherever you may be.
These days, I seek another who is submissive, for friendship and fun. However, she must understand that my time is short and my responsibilities are tall. She must be patient and understanding of my obligations and have some flexibility in her own "vanilla" life that allows for spontaneous interaction and interactions planned well in advance. She may be married, or attached or single in her vanilla life, but, in this lifestyle, she must be available and without collar.
In turn, she will find a dom who is compassionate, caring, kind and considerate. A dom who is also strong in conviction and firm with hand and flogger when appropriate. A dom who will ride you into subspace, but only when he's mapped the best route through your head, first.
So, my hand is open, put your own in it and come play along the trails of this forest with me. . . let's ride the ride, share the journey, cross our life paths and see how long they run together in this similar direction. You are invited to approach, encouraged to interact, enticed to enjoy . . .
Gunslinger
Please note: I subscribe to the safe, sane and consensual credo in all playing.
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My Ideal Person:
She will reveal herself to me when the time is right.
I may be the ". . . Master of my fate. . . the Captain of my soul" (Invictus), but I'm also a Pirate (Gunslinger). When the right ship comes around Starboard side, I'll take her as my own . . .
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