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A true Dom/sub relationship requires an incredible amount of trust and safety. Casual play at depth is an oxymoron. You can't really play deeply and be superficial. Generally.
I tend to get deep, and attached. I expect honesty. I don't plunge into trust quickly. It takes time. And as a sub you will be the one needing to trust Me first. I won't expect this right away, not by any stretch. Trust is earned, both directions.
I happen to be a creative, intelligent, balanced, passionate, healthy, demanding and athletic Dom who believes in evolution of relationships and individuals.
I can be affectionate and communicative despite my hard ass/sadistic sides.
I have over 20 yrs. experience in BDSM. Am somewhat freakishly young looking for my age--most guess around 40-45.
Am grounded and a worthy guide and caretaker of your trust. If emotional safety is important to you then you need to be able to communicate with me, and do so honestly. Am patient and willing to work with those who have a hard time expressing themselves.
More pics available. Physical stats: athletic/muscular/toned, 5'8, short black hair, piercing greenish/hazel eyes that change color, mediterranean looks, olive skin, playful demeanor at at times. I am also quite firm, strict, and demanding.
Am willing to assist you in finding your boundaries then slowly breaking them down. Am picky and very patient.
I can be extremely intense and demanding, and I will push your boundaries. But it will always be with an awareness of your ultimate limits, whether stated or intuited. A good Dom senses this and knows when to back off or when to Push.
(Standard members may contact me free).
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My Ideal Person:
A woman willing to explore boundaries with eager yet cautious abandon. Someone who craves knowledge, understanding of self and other, and the beauty, release, and liberation of being controlled in a safe environment with an attentive, intelligent, creative, humorous, multi-faceted, and dynamic Dom.
Seeking someone who is, deep down, a sweetheart. If you do not have a generally sweet disposition, we will not get along in the long run, although we may still have fun, I'm still seeking a sweet someone.
Finally: 1) to all "subs" interested in submitting. This is not a game. Your focus and attention will be essential from initial contact on. If you sound distracted, flighty, or otherwise non-present, I'm gone. 2) to all fake profiles/phishers/hackers out there get a life this is no place to make money. I come after you guys aggressively so if you're fake, its best to move on.
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