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Are You a Pain Slut?   6/29/2012

ARE YOU A PAIN SLUT? (Or the Dom of one?) By MJ Reldan

I am a sadist. I like making pain. A masochist likes getting pain. Should be simple as that. I hurt you and we'll both enjoy it. I think


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TheSmartDom 57 M
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Safety in Meeting Men for BDSM   5/18/2012

Comments on Safety in BDSM MJ Reldan TheSmartDom

Our society began with women as chattel and slaves. It hasn’t set a good scene for safe, sane and consentual play. Some men feel that accept


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TheSmartDom 57 M
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The Mental Aspects of Submission   5/18/2012

The Mental Aspect of Submission By MJ Reldan TheSmartDom

Much time and space is spent on the discussion of the physical aspects of a potential BDSM connection. Yet NOTHING happens without the


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TheSmartDom 57 M
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Sadism and Pain   11/3/2011

Sadism and Pain – a description for newbies By MJ Reldan

You must understand that I am a sadist. That means that I like causing pain, obviously. These are radical statements and can be frig


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The Proper Spanking   9/30/2011

The Proper Spanking

By MJ Reldan

A friend said to me recently “I’ve never had a proper spanking.” I asked “What does that mean to you?” Her reply: “They think they’ve s


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In the Restaurant - the true account of a lunch in Illinois.   6/30/2011

In the Restaurant - the true account of a lunch in Illinois. By anonomous



As I pulled into the restaurant, my nerves went into overdrive. After some conversation with Master MJ by


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The Journey Begins Again   6/22/2011

The Journey Begins Again by TheSmartDom

The air is comfortably cool on your bare skin and you are grateful not to have to worry about sweating. Hotel rooms have a recognizable, if not unpleas


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TheSmartDom 57 M
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Thoughts on Multiple Orgasm.   6/14/2011

I have not met a woman that I cannot make cum at least a few times in an hour once I have learned her responses. I understand how arrogant that statement seems. Yet it is baffling to me how simple tha


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TheSmartDom 57 M
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So What Kind of Sub Are You? The Elements of Submission   6/14/2011

The BDSM community seems to know what it means when it says Dom and sub to each other. Yet a look at the forums and groups on line show how much those definitions are really up for discussion. It is i


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