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Netiquette 12/23/2004
I am always careful about what I post here and give it some
thought before sending it to alt magazine. I ask myself
how others may percieve my words, check for accuracy and
am prepared in the event
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Black Armbands 12/19/2004
On occasion I have seen comments that are political in nature
here on alt and thought I would share the following with
everyone here who reads the magazine section. This pertains
to Americans but t
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Merry Christmas 12/17/2004
Merry Christmas to all here on alt in the magazine section
and anywhere else on this site. The holidays afford us the
opportunity to extend warm feelings and good will toward
all within our circle
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Standard members and replying to emails 12/16/2004
Just wanted to let those who email standard members know
that the lack of response isn't the non paying members
choice. Alt allows standard members a limited number of
replies within a 24 hour peri
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Married Partners, Is Turnabout Fair Play? 12/15/2004
I posted an article sometime back about married men on alt.
The responses ran the gamut and my ratings on the article
were fifty percent negative and fifty percent positive
save for two so so votes
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Mutual Interest 12/12/2004
You recieve an e-mail from someone who you find to be appealing.
Correspondence flies back and forth. Things evolve to
the point where are exchanged. Ultimately
you decide to meet. For some of us
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Dishonesty here on Alt? No way lol 12/12/2004
Seldom does a week go by that I am not reading somewhere on
alt that a member hasn't been ummm quite truthful when
interacting with another member here. No surprise. Given
the anonymity afforded on
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Alt Filters 12/12/2004
Prior to setting my filters to exclude those not in my immediate
geographical region I was at times inundated with e-mails
from those who wanted to interact with me. After resetting
my filters I h
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How We Define Ourselves 12/12/2004
Back in my free days as a silver member (grins), I looked
at a multitude of profiles. Primarily male I must admit
although some of my correspondence with men and the comments
they made about women'
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When Patience Becomes Stupidity 11/30/2004
I have wondered why people don't think about outcomes
when lying to others on this site. Several individuals
on this site either outright lied to me or badly misrepresented
who they were. Trust me
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Individuals Who Date Others Who Don't Value Them 11/21/2004
We are all ultimately in charge of how we allow another individual
to treat us. If we don't set limits and expect others
to honor our boundaries some won't. Relationship
patterns also come into pla
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Alt's Response To Member Complaints 11/21/2004
I recently recieved an email from alt directing me to a link
where I could set up my account to window out emails from
those who weren't in my locale. I am no longer recieving
email from members w
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On Dating Older Women 11/20/2004
I had an experience in my late twenties that educated me
about older women. I was dating someone who ended the relationship
to be in a committed relationship with a woman in her mid
forties. He was
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Men Will Be Men? 11/14/2004
I just read a comment from a male in response to an article
I wrote regarding sex minus strings. He wrote to say that
men will be men and that casual sex was what men sought while
women sought invo
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Establishing Trust 11/12/2004
Establishing Trust
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It had begun seemingly much like the other times that they
had engaged in play. She was somewhat apprehensive having
no clue what he had in
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Emotional Safety 11/12/2004
We hear a great deal about physical safety in bdsm relationships.
Emotional safety is equally important. Our psyches are
as vulnerable to injury as our bodies are. Unfortunately,
except to a well t
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Married Men 11/12/2004
There have been numerous articles here on alt in reference
to married men seeking no strings attached intimacy. They
say they love their wife and have no desire to get a divorce,
and that their onl
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Alt, Past And Present 11/12/2004
I have been a member of this website for close to two years
and have seen it evolve into something that doesn't
effectively provide a place for those within the community
to meet and interact. Some
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Kegals, Abdomen and Fanny Exercises 10/28/2004
Exercises for the inner vaginal muscles, the fanny and
the abdomen can all be done by simply tightening muscles,
then relaxing them. This can be done without special equipment
or a specific set tim
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Re: To Pee Or Not To Pee 10/28/2004
I recently responded to this question here on alt magazine.
According to a site I visited, stimilating the clitoris
while peeing produces an awesome and earthshaking orgasm.
May I suggest that you
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Re; Self Abuse/ Self Injury 10/28/2004
This author wrote to say she wonders how many in the lifestyle
have a history of childhood sexual and/or physical trauma.
I suspect many do. As submissives they have control over
what happens where
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Re: Betrayals Of Trust 10/28/2004
It's interesting to note that when others including
myself, have addressed this here on alt, multiple "I
don't like votes" or caustic responses to our
observations fly hard and fast. unfortunately
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Meat Market Mentality 10/26/2004
I have come across yet another article from a gentlemen
(?) on this site seeking to get laid. Sighs, don't these
guys get it? A number of women on this site, myself included
have put forth the effo
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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email 10/26/2004
I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all
likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they
had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send
me an email as my location and
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Re: Don't Like It Voters 10/25/2004
Smiles... I have been a contributor to alt magazine now
for nearly a year. People here on alt are afforded anonymity
and some feel that this gives them a license to be obnoxious,
overbearing, and i
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Re: Pubic Hair 10/25/2004
Many agree with your assessment regarding pubic hair.
I am someone who shaves daily in my genital region and find
the same to be appealing in my partner. I feel the absence
of pubic hair both enhan
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First Date From Hell 10/24/2004
I once met a Dominant from a chat program who badly misrepresented
himself. We talked for nearly six months before meeting
which in and of itself might seem like a long time but this
individual was
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Players & The Games They Play 10/24/2004
You recieve an e-mail from someone on alt. After viewing
their profile, you determine that they are someone who
you have enough in common with to explore the possibilities
afforded two people who d
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Re: Fear Of Sex 10/24/2004
We believe what we tell ourselves. We need to pay attention
to the messages we send to ourselves regarding who and what
we are. I noticed that the author of this article percieved
himself as being
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On Being A Dominant 10/24/2004
A Dominant here on alt recently posted an article that has
somewhat restored my faith in that population, something
sorely tested by all the Dom wannabees who all claim to have
a clue. I find that
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