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otacar1 69 M
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Where is a good source for BDSM books? - 10/15/2002

Where is a good source for BDSM books. I have searched but am not having any luck.

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sexualcandymb 53 F
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Bored in Rhode Island - 10/11/2002

Looking for clubs around or in Providence, RI private or membership.

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hsvman35803 52 M
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Several partners seem very interested in getting tied up? But I am new here... - 10/10/2002

Many of my recent sex partners have seemed very interested in getting tied up, etc.. However, being new to this scene I am a bit nervous about taking this to the next step with another novice. Does anyone have advise, tips, suggestions about how I can take these interested young ladies and make their fantasy come true?

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sweetjuicymound 62 F
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Can a surrogate Dom help a hurting subbie? - 10/1/2002

I miss my Master/Lover/Friend/Confidant. He lives far away and my heart, body and mind ache for him. I recently returned from a rendezvous with him in New York. It was wonderful to be with him and we both had a marvelous time but something is different now; something changed. There is now a far more important distance between us. I don’t understand and it saddens me greatly. <br> ...

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pandablu 61 F
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How to enlarge/sensitize nipples? - 10/1/2002

I am blessed with very large breasts (44E) but my nipples seem too small and not very sensitive. Can anyone give advice on how to enlarge them permanently and make the more sensitive and responsive? Either by myself or with help of a lover. Are there any kind of vibrators or machines that will do this? Would nipple piercing help, how painful is it?

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UKBDM3 80 M
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What do dogslaves really want? - 9/20/2002

I'm a BDSM Master, and a couple of guys I have met wanted to be real dogslaves, but I can't really understand what real dogslaves want. A Master cannot ask a dogslave whats he wants as the answer is always "Whatever the Master wants". But neither of the two guys seemed satisfied with standard BDSM and the really cute one won't come back. Yes you can make them run around on all fours on a ...

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SmallBlond 64 F
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Walking the walk - Why are guys so timid? - 9/18/2002

I like to experiment - and most men say they do too - the problem is when I still want to and am willing to do these o-so-fun things they say they want to do to me, they get "uncomfortable" - they lie and then I am that one who feels discomfort and shame. <br> What's with that? What's light bondage, a little 3-way or nipple clamps? Lightweight, right? It's not youth alone - ...

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danzeg 52 M
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CAN A SUB like - 9/15/2002

yes i want a sub to tease please but i wan tone for scenes and sodamy for a change.Any subs out there that like that?

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captdoug 77 M
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are there many women who like to fist straight men? - 9/13/2002

for 20 years with multiple lovers i have been fisted by women[i'm a no doubt straight man]and am curious how many women are into it and how many straight men have been able to enjoy it given the inhibitions of male culture.

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mistressvirginia 66 F
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need help controling my slave - 9/7/2002

hi i'm new to this and the man i want for my slave can't give me the time of day we talk all the time about what he likes and how he want to be controled i make him weak with my words but to get him under my power is a driffrent thing and i love this slave and it hurt see him with other mistress he dose not give me a second glance...i really need some help

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kaap143 59 F
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how do you know what your mate wants - 9/6/2002

I am a woman in my late 30's I have been out of the dating scene for a very long time. how do I know what my partner wants? I'am afraid I will scare him if I let my true feelings come out. I could use all the help yall are willing to give me

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pippin69 53 F
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How do you get started? - 9/4/2002

I am brand new to all this. I am a happily married woman who has always been interested in bdsm, but husband is not. I thought I'd try a few things virtually to find out how much this really suits/doesn't suit me. I have looked around and most of the profiles seem to want longer commitments than what I'm looking for. Help!

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nicenthick8 65 M
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Are there any clubs in S. CA for people into watersports? - 8/19/2002

I really enjoy having a sexy woman piss on my face and in my mouth. I also enjoy having her start pissing while I'm eating her. This can be very hot for both of us. I've also recieved golden showers from men and this can be very hot as well. Are there any clubs or organizations that cater to this?

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SassySub57 67 F
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Married Men?? - 8/12/2002

why do married men lie about their status to women, why not be truthful in the beginning and see what happens, by lying you make the woman wonder what else you may have lied about to them??

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sarahsmiles66 59 C
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I'm new, What are the true basic's for being a sub? - 8/10/2002

I have the desire, but lack something......I have always been in love with the person I wish to be my master...he is giving me the chance to prove myself.....and prove myself I MUST!!!! What are the things I should know? what are big no-no's? Please help me!!

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usmale4u2 65 M
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What percentage of women have ever experienced - 7/30/2002

I absolutely love giving oral pleasures to women. I am a pleaser by all accounts but I also like to be pleased. Being pleased myself is not my goal when I make love to a woman. However, over the years I have found that by giving pleasure to a woman actually satifies me completely, even if I don't climax myself. I love seeing the excitement, or even fear in the eyes of a woman that is ...

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MasterPet 58 M
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Extreme Tit-torture - Br-Bondage - Br-Suspension - 7/30/2002

I´m fascinated about extrem (but sane!) tit- torture. I´ve seen several pics on the net and on some profiles where heavy painsluts have been hanging around with their full weight only on their tight bound tits. I´d like to play such extreme games too, but I want to hear from experienced Tops / painsluts about the healty risks and the major know how to avoid injury. Further I´d looking ...

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deek976 81 M
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Mental pain - 7/23/2002

Need some advice on inflicting mental pain. Lets face it we call all do the physical stuff, but the mental is a bit more trickly.. Need some help and advice with this for my female sub.

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in10seplay 52 M
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wife wont do it - 7/15/2002

Ive been married for 6 years now and often times find myself wandering into the fantasy world. I have tried to express my feelings of domination/submission to my wife but she wants nothing to do with it. I have attempted to try various techniques on my wife only to be scorned for thinking these thoughts. I am a very dominant person but wouldnt mind submitting either. I fantasize of being ...

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AsaSchwartz 86 M
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ALT lifestyle groups in Ocala FL? - 7/10/2002

Are there any ALT lifestyle groups in Ocala FL? how can I contact them?

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AsaSchwartz 86 M
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Groups in Ocala FL? - 7/3/2002

Is there a Dom/Sub community in Ocala FL.? How can I contact them?

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mn_sub 57 M
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where do i find a prodom in minnesota - 6/29/2002

i have been looking for a dom to put me in my place but have not had any luck as of yet.can anyone suggest a prodom in minnesota or northern wisconsin.thanks...

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Anton246 57 M
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I need a woman with a camera - 6/29/2002

I'm a 36 year old male looking to get back 'on scene' after a prolonged absence & I need photos for my ad. I've tried a few Alt members but none seems willing to help. If any women (preferably in or around Gloucestershire or Lancashire, England) are able to help me out in this respect then I will, of course, return the favour in any way desired. Genuine offers or advice please. No ...

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sdick 55 M
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Etectrotorture - 6/29/2002

Can anyone tell me where to buy electrical torture devices?

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norrinrad 56 M
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force me to suck cock(s) - 6/24/2002

Married white male. Want to experience submission to a woman or multiple women. My fantasy starts with me submitting to a small group of women. I had volunteered to jerk off for their amusement in a response to an online chat. When I arrive the 3 women take a very aggressive stance with me and order me to strip naked. I put on my show for them but I cum to soon. I am grabbed by my hair ...

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terry1025 71 M
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Are there any women in Southern California to orally service during - 6/22/2002

I am an attractive WM DD Free (Scorpio) who flouishes on the total taste of a woman. When they say Oh I can't it is that time of the month my response is that it only makes it more exciting and pleasurable - I love the taste of a woman anytime. Most women freak out my question is are there any women in Southern California (That is not a Pro) who would enjoy that experience?

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deepdivingnude7 80 M
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24/7 - 6/21/2002

What is the meaning of 24/7 and the accompaning sentence Total Power exchange. Curious dom.

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4scompany 57 M
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Why do I feel unwanted stress about My Masterdom - 6/16/2002

Will I feel stress at the the fact some people want things without geting their fingers dirty, why does one sit in chat rooms when there is a serious need by , both parties to get it really on. Only one transexully made me feel like a master of any worth until the poor thing found out i was black and back right out. I would not in the least bit of hurt her or made her a suject of foolish ...

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mck3222 53 M
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A bigger penis. - 6/6/2002

hi friends, do anyone know how should i have a bigger penis? Please help. Thank you.

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mwoky 81 M
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how can i find someone to fist me gor the first time? - 6/5/2002

am a submissive bottom who deeply enjoy's dildo's and butt plugs and now wants to try fisting. how do i locate someone to share my first experience with?

3 response(s), 1 vote