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dynamitesneon 41 M
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Condom use   7/9/2005

We all know it feels much better without them. What condoms are the best feeling? I've had good results with trogan shared sensations and these imagine things or whatever they're called, with the shell design and the blue package... yeah I don't remember. Either way, anyone got tips?


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holdntwitch 40 C
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Contraceptive Gels   7/2/2005

Does anyone use these regularly? My wife and I have a box of them, but have yet to really try them out. Are they messy, do they interfere with oral sex, is there any residues or anything? If anyone has some more information on this kind of birth control method we would like to hear about the Pros and Cons of using it.


3 Comments, 345 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
PlusSizeWoman4U 48 F
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Excuses! Excuses! "no glove no love"   6/27/2005

Excuses! Excuses! "no glove no love" <br> <br> Nobody has a body to die for. Safe sex is always better! It's fun, and you don't have to worry as much. Safe sex means making sure you don't get anyone else's blood, semen, vaginal fluids, or breast milk in your body -- and protecting your partners too! Condoms, latex surgical gloves, and plastic wrap are the only way to ...


2 Comments, 257 Views, 19 Votes ,5.89 Score
PlusSizeWoman4U 48 F
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Safer Oral sex with women   6/27/2005

Safer Oral sex with women <br> You can get HIV and STDs even if you're not having intercourse. It can't hurt to cover all the bases -- with latex, that is! <br> plastic wrap: If you're going to be licking your partner's vulva and clit (eating out), use a piece of plastic wrap to be safe. Yes! All you need is some glad-wrap, or a condom cut down the side ...


0 Comments, 316 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
ihvirisheyestoo 64 F
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...thoughts in the night..   6/17/2005

Thoughts in the night....... <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> ...in the essence of a wildless night, entwined in velvet arms, lavished from the sweet lips, enchanted by her charms. <br> skin shone bright 'neath the autumn moon, dampened with the dew, droplets gathered. along her spine and cooled ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
oneloverlywoman 54 C
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Test Results......the new safe sex   3/20/2005

Up until recently I have had many sexual relationships based on trust. I have never had a disease until this one girl was put in the mix. She indicated to me that she had been tested and I had a trust, shortly after that I got a call that i would have to be tested. The scare put me in a place where I have never been. Fortunately I came up clean, but now I find that even safe sex is not ...


2 Comments, 664 Views, 24 Votes ,3.58 Score
jillyshub 57 T
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Help & Advice Needed: Bi Blowing   2/16/2005

Q1: Is there any way of giving a guy a blow-job safely without using a condom? <br> Dumb question 2: My fantasy is to swallow a hot load. Is there any way of doing this and not seriously risk getting a STD? <br> <br> I'd be very grateful on any help and advice you can offer. <br> <br> ta. <br> J.x.


8 Comments, 1597 Views, 29 Votes ,4.04 Score
sweetheart77 49 F
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Anal Sex   2/12/2005

i have a problem putting in butt plugs. They seem to hurt, but yet they feel so amazing when they are inside. How long does it take for a butt to stretch, and if it does stretch does it go back to being tight?


13 Comments, 1919 Views, 42 Votes ,4.47 Score
Man_Bear25 44 M
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stds misconseption   1/12/2005

Hi I like to be safe in life specially about stds, like im sure most of you are. There is a misconseption about stds and lesbians thouhgt. Im a guy and I have spoken to lots of lesbians in different age groups, but what really surpirise me is that 90% of the I've spoke about sex and stds say the most unrealistic, stupid thing..." A lesbian cannot get AIDS, thats a penis thing ". Thats ...


2 Comments, 412 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
ynghng_21 36 M
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When is Anal Appropriate?   1/10/2005

I put this article under the catagory "Safe Sex" because the question pretains to the mental aspect of anal sex. A good friend of mine recently informed me that her younger sister had just lost her virginity the night befor at the age of 18. She told me that her sister was very excited when she spoke of it and even added the fact that they "did it" in three different positions. She ...


3 Comments, 979 Views, 34 Votes ,5.13 Score
KitiaraFury 41 F
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More on NON LATEX CONDOMS   1/10/2005

well if you have read the other to articles u know my views... out of the Two Most commonly known on the market and personal experiences... <br> I would suggest if u have to use Non-latex that u go with Trojan Microsheer Condoms <br> i've had the Avanti break more than once and out of all the times i've used them NEVER had the trojan microsheers break


1 Comments, 361 Views, 35 Votes ,4.12 Score
ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
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SANTA;FBI.QUESTIONS*TEDDYBEAR*WHAT*ARE*YOU*HIDING?"   1/10/2005

SANTA[DATELINE]APRLANDO, FLA.T.BEAR:SECRETSANTA found out that the Local FBI is investigating how a loaded.22cal.gun was part of the condom, stuffing inside a brown teddy bear a young boy was bringing home on hisreturnflighthomefrom.a.Florida vacation. the boys parents, were questioned and were released after they told theFBI.that.a.strangegirl.hadknocked ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
KitiaraFury 41 F
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Latex Allergies and Safe Sex   1/2/2005

I found out a few years back that I am severely allergic to latex and that it is a condom allergy.. But that doesn't mean I don't practice safe sex... The only thing that bothers me is .. On the back of the NON-Latex condom boxes it states that The condoms effectiveness for prevention of pregnancy and STDs are unknown.. Which does bother me.. Granted I've been using them and have had No ...


2 Comments, 214 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
KitiaraFury 41 F
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Avanti as well as for Trojan Microsheers   1/2/2005

This is the warning on the back of the label for Avanti by Durex & Trojan Supra which are Non latex condoms <br> Please note: The risks of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STD's) including AIDS (HIV infection) are not known for polyurethane condoms. Studies are being done. That said, laboratory tests on this material have shown that organisms even as small as sperm ...


1 Comments, 209 Views, 28 Votes ,5.60 Score
JoePerf 51 M
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Those annoying fungi   12/31/2004

I've often ended up with a mild case of jock-itch, a fungal infection after play that included toys. My partner generally also catch something similar in those instances. What we've realized is that toys, vibrators, dildo's, etc. isn't really "clean" if you wask them. We now disinfect all toys before and after play, and the problem just about disappeared.


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soggypantscan 42 M
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African secrets   12/5/2004

In ancient Africa and Egypt, a way to prevent pregnancy was to have a special salve or medicated cream that was administered upon the woman prior to intercourse which killed sperm. <br> I remember being asked this once in class "Can anybody tell me what method of birth control the ancient egyptians used?" <br> I answered "the father in law with a spear?"


1 Comments, 231 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
Deludedillysion 44 M
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The Preacher   12/1/2004

For years since becoming sexually active I went amongst my friends preaching safe sex like the self righteous tit I was back then. Then something happened that made me do a considerable double take on my stance. I experienced unprotected sex. I’d like to say that there was little difference. I’d also like to say I was in a relationship. Both would be lies. <br> Though ...


3 Comments, 358 Views, 25 Votes ,4.57 Score
jimmyladyboy 39 M
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Do guys realize .... reality?   11/22/2004

I do realize that many guys fantisize about cumming in a girls face, mouth, or ass or... u name it. Also women, with being eaten out. But do these same guys and gals realize that even blowjobs without condoms are not safe? Not only for them for me as well? I've had too many guys and girls just think that "it's all good". I guess i'm just getting my frustrations out, I just feel agrivated, ...


3 Comments, 986 Views, 70 Votes ,6.77 Score
elvana 51 F
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One night of Stupidity   11/17/2004

"never get ur passion dominating you"....for the love of pleasure.....One night of unsafe passionate sex...can coz u a lifetime of regrets...so to all u sex lovers out there includin myself....have sex or make love healthy...keep safe n dont be stupid n carried away by pleasure.........xx


4 Comments, 418 Views, 74 Votes ,7.15 Score
mistress_moyra 55 F
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unprotected sex -- now what?   11/15/2004

What does one do when one finds out their "one and only" is having unprotected sex. I'm all for polyamory as long as all outside sex is safe. When that trust is breeched however, what should happen? You know this occurs all the time. What are some of the solutions others have found for this situation?


2 Comments, 275 Views, 39 Votes ,6.09 Score
LEARN69 58 M
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Love and Sex   11/14/2004

It could be the same for lots of people. But the important point is that it's a must for me! I can phrase it in short by "No sex if no love". Love meant here is not necessary what has been grown through a long time. It could be the feeling that existed even before meeting. A person's heart is not really free of love until he meets his perfect partner. Some kind of feeling would always exist ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 19 Votes ,4.84 Score
IrishSwitch99 50 M
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Safe sex good to use or not   10/30/2004

In the heat of passion, is it ok to go ahead and take the risk or take the time to be safe. I am not sure why some people find it hard to talk about safe sex and if you practice or have you been tested. In the world we live in you must be safe because it is just not you that you are affecting. Yes I love to have sex with no protection it feels so much better, but I make sure I am with my ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 24 Votes ,5.97 Score
ladytegan 48 F
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Safe Sex   10/28/2004

Safe sex, why is it that doesn't seem to be practiced anymore? You find dominants, and submissive who balk at the idea of wanting actual proof that they are clean. Trust is one thing.... but with everything these days... I can't see how we can just trust word of mouth anymore.


1 Comments, 159 Views, 23 Votes ,6.63 Score
allwicked 51 M
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safe oralsex (aids)   10/9/2004

actualy yes you can get aids by preforming oral sex on a man true.. what the odds are? a lot lower then sugested in an other article. Just about the only way to get aids form a bj is the badluck to have really bloody gums.. if you got a wound in your mouth thats big and bloody you can get aids if not.. hardly possible as the virus can not penitrate skin and the insides of you mouth is skin. ...


2 Comments, 312 Views, 39 Votes ,4.87 Score
cinfully1976 47 F
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reply to: anal sex question   10/6/2004

In response to your question on wither or not to give up on the anal aspect or to try other routes. Lets start off with I have been doing anal for nearly 10 years now, but do not claim to be an expert in anyway. But I believe you truly want to do anal with your partner it is a possibility. It just might not happen as soon as you would like it to happen. Some women it can takes months even ...


1 Comments, 440 Views, 66 Votes ,8.24 Score
FrancesR 61 F
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What to do?   10/6/2004

What do you do if he is down to the short, fast and deep srokes and the rubber breaks. How do you stop him? This has happened to me and both times I got creamed. Please advise Thank you FrancesR


0 Comments, 362 Views, 19 Votes ,2.73 Score
Miss_Coco30 50 F
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Re: Safe Sex is it that safe   10/4/2004

Safe sex means protecting yourself 100% of the time. Carrying protection in your handbag and not taking one out prior to intimacy doesn’t count. Carry it and strap it on – that is my definition of safe sex!


0 Comments, 76 Views, 25 Votes ,7.23 Score
subbiecdts 57 T
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HIV/AIDS transmission and safe sex.   10/2/2004

Having a friend recently go through a HIV scare, I did a lot of reading on the subject and thought I would pass along some of my findings since some of you have asked some related questions here recently. Can HIV be transmitted through oral sex? Yes, though the giver is at a much greater risk than the receiver. HIV is found in the greatest concentration in blood and seminal fluids, so any ...


0 Comments, 203 Views, 25 Votes ,8.11 Score
Mandigo_81 43 M
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Anal Sex. Going About Preping A First Timer   9/20/2004

Im having difficulties trying to prep my partner to relax to recieve. I think the biggest problem we face is my endowment, comparable to anus. Ive tried lots of lubricant and tried starter sets (toys etc etc) as well as rimming to relax then to fingers. But i just cant get my partner to a comfortable stage; let alone streching out the anus Should i chalk this up as: A) Anal pleasure is not ...


0 Comments, 197 Views, 16 Votes ,2.69 Score
stan69_4u 62 M
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Oral Sex M2F - What are the Risks and Precautions Advice ?   8/28/2004

I love giving pleasure to my female sub. Long term relationships can always be covered by bacterial and viral screening prior to the first play and sex session. This is not possible for casual contacts. <br> I recognise that there are some risks associated with this type of activity, but I am not entirely sure of what they are. Neither am I really clear on what I should do to ...


0 Comments, 263 Views, 47 Votes ,4.85 Score