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SirElliottMI 69 C
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TENS danger Please read   9/6/2005

I felt it important to post a clear understanding of the dangers of using a TENS device in scene play. There was a recent advice post that had some incorrect advise. While there was an attempt to correct the advise, it was farther down the page and might have been missed. <br> What is a TENS device? <br> TENS is a method of applying controlled, low-voltage electrical ...


1 Comments, 759 Views, 17 Votes ,5.53 Score
Chainmaster100 58 M
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saran wrap?   7/28/2005

Does anyone know other ways to eat pussy safely other than saran wrap? Although it does work effectivly.


4 Comments, 584 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
oneloverlywoman 54 C
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Test Results......the new safe sex   7/27/2005

Up until recently I have had many sexual relationships based on trust. I have never had a disease until this one girl was put in the mix. She indicated to me that she had been tested and I had a trust, shortly after that I got a call that i would have to be tested. The scare put me in a place where I have never been. Fortunately I came up clean, but now I find that even safe sex is not ...


2 Comments, 664 Views, 24 Votes ,3.58 Score
KitiaraFury 41 F
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Latex Allergies and Safe Sex   7/27/2005

I found out a few years back that I am severely allergic to latex and that it is a condom allergy.. But that doesn't mean I don't practice safe sex... The only thing that bothers me is .. On the back of the NON-Latex condom boxes it states that The condoms effectiveness for prevention of pregnancy and STDs are unknown.. Which does bother me.. Granted I've been using them and have had No ...


2 Comments, 214 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
jimmyladyboy 39 M
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Do guys realize .... reality?   6/21/2005

I do realize that many guys fantisize about cumming in a girls face, mouth, or ass or... u name it. Also women, with being eaten out. But do these same guys and gals realize that even blowjobs without condoms are not safe? Not only for them for me as well? I've had too many guys and girls just think that "it's all good". I guess i'm just getting my frustrations out, I just feel agrivated, ...


3 Comments, 986 Views, 70 Votes ,6.77 Score
ihvirisheyestoo 64 F
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...thoughts in the night..   6/17/2005

Thoughts in the night....... <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> <br> ...in the essence of a wildless night, entwined in velvet arms, lavished from the sweet lips, enchanted by her charms. <br> skin shone bright 'neath the autumn moon, dampened with the dew, droplets gathered. along her spine and cooled ...


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ladytuaca 50 F
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i want to see written proof... is that asking too much?   4/11/2005

The time we live in is dangerous. Trusting someone new with my life is scary. i ask potential, male, sex partners for a their results from a PCR (a highly accurate HIV test) before the first time we have sex. <br> Guys that would otherwise be compatible are put off. They talk about using protection, but i feel that is not enough... for the first time together. i have had a ...


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Man_Bear25 44 M
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stds misconseption   3/21/2005

Hi I like to be safe in life specially about stds, like im sure most of you are. There is a misconseption about stds and lesbians thouhgt. Im a guy and I have spoken to lots of lesbians in different age groups, but what really surpirise me is that 90% of the I've spoke about sex and stds say the most unrealistic, stupid thing..." A lesbian cannot get AIDS, thats a penis thing ". Thats ...


2 Comments, 412 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
soggypantscan 42 M
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African secrets   3/18/2005

In ancient Africa and Egypt, a way to prevent pregnancy was to have a special salve or medicated cream that was administered upon the woman prior to intercourse which killed sperm. <br> I remember being asked this once in class "Can anybody tell me what method of birth control the ancient egyptians used?" <br> I answered "the father in law with a spear?"


1 Comments, 231 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
KitiaraFury 41 F
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Avanti as well as for Trojan Microsheers   3/9/2005

This is the warning on the back of the label for Avanti by Durex & Trojan Supra which are Non latex condoms <br> Please note: The risks of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases (STD's) including AIDS (HIV infection) are not known for polyurethane condoms. Studies are being done. That said, laboratory tests on this material have shown that organisms even as small as sperm ...


1 Comments, 209 Views, 28 Votes ,5.60 Score
allwicked 51 M
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safe oralsex (aids)   2/25/2005

actualy yes you can get aids by preforming oral sex on a man true.. what the odds are? a lot lower then sugested in an other article. Just about the only way to get aids form a bj is the badluck to have really bloody gums.. if you got a wound in your mouth thats big and bloody you can get aids if not.. hardly possible as the virus can not penitrate skin and the insides of you mouth is skin. ...


2 Comments, 312 Views, 39 Votes ,4.87 Score
JoePerf 51 M
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Those annoying fungi   2/14/2005

I've often ended up with a mild case of jock-itch, a fungal infection after play that included toys. My partner generally also catch something similar in those instances. What we've realized is that toys, vibrators, dildo's, etc. isn't really "clean" if you wask them. We now disinfect all toys before and after play, and the problem just about disappeared.


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elvana 51 F
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One night of Stupidity   2/6/2005

"never get ur passion dominating you"....for the love of pleasure.....One night of unsafe passionate sex...can coz u a lifetime of regrets...so to all u sex lovers out there includin myself....have sex or make love healthy...keep safe n dont be stupid n carried away by pleasure.........xx


4 Comments, 418 Views, 74 Votes ,7.15 Score
niqole 55 T
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Breaking the ice   2/3/2005

How do you feel about having a glass of wine or a drink before scening? Is this helpfull in breaking the ice, overcoming the shyness? Or is this just unsafe practice which should be definitely avoided? I would appreciate yoyr comments and experiences in this matter.


1 Comments, 117 Views, 41 Votes ,5.51 Score
KitiaraFury 41 F
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More on NON LATEX CONDOMS   1/12/2005

well if you have read the other to articles u know my views... out of the Two Most commonly known on the market and personal experiences... <br> I would suggest if u have to use Non-latex that u go with Trojan Microsheer Condoms <br> i've had the Avanti break more than once and out of all the times i've used them NEVER had the trojan microsheers break


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ANOTHERSANTA 94 M
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SANTA;FBI.QUESTIONS*TEDDYBEAR*WHAT*ARE*YOU*HIDING?"   1/11/2005

SANTA[DATELINE]APRLANDO, FLA.T.BEAR:SECRETSANTA found out that the Local FBI is investigating how a loaded.22cal.gun was part of the condom, stuffing inside a brown teddy bear a young boy was bringing home on hisreturnflighthomefrom.a.Florida vacation. the boys parents, were questioned and were released after they told theFBI.that.a.strangegirl.hadknocked ...


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Mandigo_81 43 M
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Anal Sex. Going About Preping A First Timer   1/7/2005

Im having difficulties trying to prep my partner to relax to recieve. I think the biggest problem we face is my endowment, comparable to anus. Ive tried lots of lubricant and tried starter sets (toys etc etc) as well as rimming to relax then to fingers. But i just cant get my partner to a comfortable stage; let alone streching out the anus Should i chalk this up as: A) Anal pleasure is not ...


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cinfully1976 47 F
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reply to: anal sex question   1/4/2005

In response to your question on wither or not to give up on the anal aspect or to try other routes. Lets start off with I have been doing anal for nearly 10 years now, but do not claim to be an expert in anyway. But I believe you truly want to do anal with your partner it is a possibility. It just might not happen as soon as you would like it to happen. Some women it can takes months even ...


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Deludedillysion 44 M
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The Preacher   1/1/2005

For years since becoming sexually active I went amongst my friends preaching safe sex like the self righteous tit I was back then. Then something happened that made me do a considerable double take on my stance. I experienced unprotected sex. I’d like to say that there was little difference. I’d also like to say I was in a relationship. Both would be lies. <br> Though ...


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kellygirl21 39 F
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Why don't we get it?   12/30/2004

There is a reasonably clear understanding of what constitutes safer sex, but people seem to not get it, or not want to get it. Take anal sex, for example (and, yes, i do take it ...it is a potential source of infection...you need condoms...unless your lover is a girl with a well cleaned strap on....getting fucked up the ass is fun...getting AIDS is not..it is possible to have one and not ...


1 Comments, 177 Views, 34 Votes ,8.09 Score
Likeafinewine 64 C
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Help With Enema?   11/24/2004

What precautions should be taken with enemas laced with alcoho? Is wine better than hard liquar? If putting a shot or two in an enema what precautions should be taken? respond to "LIKEAFINEWINE" ON ALT. Thank you


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mistress_moyra 55 F
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unprotected sex -- now what?   11/20/2004

What does one do when one finds out their "one and only" is having unprotected sex. I'm all for polyamory as long as all outside sex is safe. When that trust is breeched however, what should happen? You know this occurs all the time. What are some of the solutions others have found for this situation?


2 Comments, 275 Views, 39 Votes ,6.09 Score
LEARN69 58 M
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Love and Sex   11/16/2004

It could be the same for lots of people. But the important point is that it's a must for me! I can phrase it in short by "No sex if no love". Love meant here is not necessary what has been grown through a long time. It could be the feeling that existed even before meeting. A person's heart is not really free of love until he meets his perfect partner. Some kind of feeling would always exist ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 19 Votes ,4.84 Score