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"THE OTHER SIDE" 12/10/2004
To start with, I am going to tackle some thoughts on the various
components of BDSM. I won't talk much about the acronym,
but do want to discuss what they are and how they relate to
each other. This may seem like beginner stuff, but you'd
be surprised at how many long time scene players don't
really understand how it all fits together - this can and
does lead to some skewed expectations.
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1 Comments,
65 Views,
36 Votes
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me? 12/7/2004
He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we
had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding.
Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That
is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and
wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his
convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which
I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...
0 Comments,
258 Views,
44 Votes
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Relationships without sex? 12/2/2004
HI there. I saw a lot of people, who looking for special kind
of oral sex, bondage sex, anal sex and and and.
Is it possible, to built a relationship without all that
physical things. I mean sex could be nice, but is it all?
1 Comments,
32 Views,
19 Votes
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Bisexual wifes how many husbands have no problem with it. 12/2/2004
I have no problem with my wife being bi-sexual but I have noticed at swingers parties and even in some couples me and the wife I have met. So husbands and boyfriends have a real problem couping with the fact there wife is indeed bi-sexual. I have no problem with the fact as I knew from the day we started dateing she was bi-sexual and it was part of her I accepted.
2 Comments,
91 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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love letter to my girlfriend 12/2/2004
Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its
been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward
to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft
and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan
ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so
I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just
sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...
1 Comments,
82 Views,
9 Votes
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wen love play 12/2/2004
and want to hear from thers who didg this
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138 Views,
22 Votes
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Collaring 12/2/2004
I have a question for doms or masters regarding collaring.
What is the average amount of time it takes including training
and consideration that is used for a master or dom to collar
a sub?
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Are there any specific levels of collaring? I am just curious.
4 Comments,
241 Views,
26 Votes
,4.21 Score
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New to this lifestyle need help in becoming a good slave. 10/30/2004
I have been with my Master for 6 months now, I love him to death. I am not yet the person slave I now i could be to him. I am looking to be his best and closes slave that he has, But i have a problem I can't yet give my whole self over to My master, I guess you would say that i am hardhead in some ways but i am in need of some advices from you. How should I correct the problem?
Worried ...
1 Comments,
50 Views,
2 Votes
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new to this lifestyle 10/30/2004
I was wondering if anyone did training on the web first with
their dom. How did it work out this dom I am working with seems
a nice guy, and says we will meet in about a month. We talk
on the phone and we talk by web too. It is hard for me to be totally
submissive to him without challenging him because know
there are no consequences yet for it. Do really want to do
this, have discovered ...
1 Comments,
96 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Any ideas? 10/29/2004
I recently met a vanilla girl but I soon realised that she
was naturally very submissive. I have introduced the idea
of BDSM & D/s to her & shes quite into it. My question
is; does anyone have any ideas for how I should take things
further?
1 Comments,
62 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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What a lucky guy I was 10/27/2004
I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...
1 Comments,
81 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Oh, Just Spank me Already! 10/25/2004
I'm a frustrated subby just getting involved in the lifestyle and find, like many of us, when I'm really stressed or upset, I NEED a good spanking! So Why is so hard to get my partner (a stated dom) to understand this? I explained, it's a great stress reducer for BOTH of us, he won't harm me if he stays focused on the sit spot and uses his hand or "gentle" implements, it allows me to release my ...
3 Comments,
107 Views,
13 Votes
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