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***a woman needs*** 1/8/2006
someone who cares about her well-being...n understand
what she's going through...recognise n value her
feelings....
someone to love freely n trust..that she will be loved in
return...
someone to notice her...love her n adore her...
someone she can confide in..trustworthy n will not turn
on her n break her confidence....
1 Comments,
70 Views,
29 Votes
,7.25 Score
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"a man needs" 1/8/2006
a woman to accept him just the way he is....trust him n be
his friend....admire him for what he has done or tried to
do....give him the opportunity to fulfil your needs.....surprise
him n keep him on the boiling point when it comes to sex...share
the fantasies...most of all nag him NOT....coz he will
run n scare him not...coz men r also very sensitive n fragile....
2 Comments,
171 Views,
51 Votes
,6.72 Score
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Co-dependancy and slave owning 1/8/2006
Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one
of devotion,
disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul...
This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily
become
unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual
ideal this
isn't exactly sane.
<br>
Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills
the
fantasy and definition of ...
3 Comments,
363 Views,
34 Votes
,5.31 Score
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New Group - Naughty Schoolgirl Memories 12/5/2005
come by and visit
1 Comments,
132 Views,
2 Votes
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My first meeting with Master 12/5/2005
My first meeting with Master was a meeting I will never forget.
I was excited that he would meet with me and nervous as to
what to excpect. I am very new to this and wasn't quite
sure what I wanted. I did know that I couldn't wait to
meet him. We met at a public place and talked for what seemed
like hours. I felt comfortable but yet knew I was being inspected
to see if I was worthy of his ...
0 Comments,
543 Views,
24 Votes
,2.79 Score
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"a soulmate" 11/23/2005
a soul-mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring
out the best in us....with a heart full of love, you will
express your highest potential, while also fulfilling
your soul's deepest purpose:to love n be loved !!
2 Comments,
76 Views,
20 Votes
,5.93 Score
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Finding the right one, but they leave you just before!!! 11/9/2005
I have noticed a lot on these websites that a person can find
a good match, but when it comes time to meet, they lose all
confidence and leave without a word or tell you that you
are unworthy of their time. I'm extremely careful
with what I show and do online, and also really look into
a person to make sure they are safe as well. But you get past
this point and however long it had taken ...
1 Comments,
285 Views,
0 Votes
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Quiet vs talkative 10/8/2005
I have notice that most girls that stay to themselves are
more active, when i say more active i mean when they find
a man they can trust and feel comfortable around, she would
show you a side of her that will outstand most forward girl!!
think about it, just say you met this girl and shes real conservative
and shy, you might start thinking that she might be boring
in the bedroom!!! trust me ...
4 Comments,
171 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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The Reality of Vuilding Relationships on the Net 10/5/2005
Ok, let's be honest here... Looking through a screen
(I like to call it an idiot box) is not really the most honest
way to meet someone, especially in an area as sensitive
as alternative lifestyles.
<br>
But you know what? It can work. I have been at alt for almost
2 years now. I have been collared to my wonderful Owner for
14 months. We met in the Southern Room here at alt. ...
1 Comments,
91 Views,
44 Votes
,8.95 Score
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What i have always known and yet it still got to me becareful 10/4/2005
My goodness you would think by looking at my profile and
as long as i have been a slave if anyone in this world would
know better it would be me. Yet here i am being a dummy and
telling anyone who reads this becareful as you can get sucked
in and not realize it and all of the sudden you end up with
being in a very bad spot in your life.
i can't memtion any names but some of the people ...
3 Comments,
1085 Views,
36 Votes
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Big surprise 9/26/2005
It all started at this party. We were all playing truth or
dare; we were all having the time of our life. Now my friends
all new that I’m straight and I have never backed down from
a dare before. Any ways I was dared to suck on this girl’s
breast and of course I did. After that I was a little hard
then the girl I had just been sucking on dared the man right
next to me to give the guy ...
0 Comments,
305 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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across the ocean 9/12/2005
I've made a rather special friend who wants me to vist
her in the philipines some day. Nothing abnormal about
it, but she wants to do that. What's your take on it?
Is it a bad idea to go to a country on vacation as a request?
I think it'd be nice to go and all, but it seems like a
lot to do for a friend.
0 Comments,
130 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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what is happening ? 9/9/2005
As I am very new at the internet and new to Alt, I am having
trouble understanding my feelings..I have been single
no sex for a while, I am finding myself really caught up
in this life.thats what I am here for, but really talking
deep.its all I think about..since I joined, just a question
I would like others thoughts on is it easy to get caught up
in the new excietment of this life style ...
2 Comments,
332 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Dommes--take a break now and then! 9/4/2005
I'm a lesbian domme. I'm a hardass, with strict
protocol, and my submissive and I are always in role. I plan
elaborate scenes, and we play very very hard.
<br>
Last weekend, she asked to take me out on a vanilla date.
She asked that we be out of role. I protested a bit for the
fun of it, then accepted.
<br>
That Saturday morning, I received a dozen roses. Then,
when ...
1 Comments,
124 Views,
22 Votes
,7.45 Score
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PREPARATION FOR THE SLAVE ASS 9/4/2005
To trian a slave ass takes a lot. First one must be willing
to do the job.............every ass starts out-- OK- "I, m
a ass"....but to be prefected each ass must undergo-
specialized training.
In order to accomplish slave training the master must be
prepared to take the steps, bare the expense and work diligently
to accomplish his or her goals.
2 Comments,
323 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Don't put all your eggs in one BASKET!!!!! 9/3/2005
I learned that if your starting a relatinship with a woman,
that its best not to give her all your attention or go out
your way 100% for her. Woman have a way that at first they
will appreciate all the sweet things you say to her and do
for her, then later on when the relationship go on for a while,
all the same sweet things you say and do for her would somehow
make her feel suffocated ...
1 Comments,
128 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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What in Earth is a Pure Trust slave Realtionship w/his(er)Owner 8/25/2005
i never heard of no limits until maybe 10 or 12 years aod to
be honest.
i have found (3) different Dominate Females and all True
Dominats's those i think who where born with an extra
gene as i was and is why i am as submissive as i am although
i am afriad they did not realize at the time i was who i am and
they where who they are.So even though i begged all of them
to come and claim me ...
1 Comments,
124 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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how do you do it? 8/24/2005
i need to find out how to build up a sucsessful sub/dom relationship!
its so annoying all i want to do it to b abused and used in so
many ways and its justnot happening:'( how do you do
it? please tell me........:'(
0 Comments,
227 Views,
0 Votes
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For me it started Very Early in my life with a childhood friend 8/13/2005
i guess all relationships start at some point or another
but mine started if i am really to think about it around 9
or 10 years old with my childhood playmate who late became
my girl friend and then my Mistress and then my Wife.
So i guess we will start at the beginning and if you folks
want to hear more let me know and i will continue (but understand
i have changed names and places as ...
1 Comments,
184 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score
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Body, Mind and Soul ... are you really out there? 8/6/2005
It is interesting to me that though we are all here on Alt.com
to seek that which is beyond what most in general society
call "the Norm", in many ways, we seek what our
vanilla friends seek, as well. We just choose to look for
the edges and in some cases the extremes in expressing our
feelings with one another. Most vanilla people want someone
who cares about them; they want someone with ...
3 Comments,
630 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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When feelings does not grow at same speed... 8/6/2005
Is it unusual that feelings does not come/grow at same speed
in a BDSM-relationship ?
<br>
And is it so that it maybe comes faster/stronger from the
submissive part, because of the need to involve feelings
to be able to give him/her self to a dominant ?
<br>
I have experienced this some times during my life; as submissive,
I NEED to have feelings for the one I do give ...
3 Comments,
474 Views,
11 Votes
,2.61 Score
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If you really want to WOW your girl.... 8/2/2005
I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!!
<br>
Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts
store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking
so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place
on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11
remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely
match, that way ...
3 Comments,
493 Views,
53 Votes
,5.59 Score
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RE: First Meets 7/31/2005
In this modern world of uncertainty, no one can be too cautous.
Yes, even Doms/Masters have a need for safety from explortation,
blackmail, etc. The internet offers numerous opportunities
to meet new people. How wonderful and exciting it can be.
However, it can also be devasting and deadly if you should
fall prey to the wrong person. During my voyage through
the Alt. lifestyle (very short ...
0 Comments,
48 Views,
28 Votes
,7.45 Score
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Several signs of poor doming 7/9/2005
So, I am a sub and proud of that. I have several tips for other
subs in separating the real Dom from the posers.
<br>
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1. The Dom meets and greets you one time with no intention
of playing.
<br>
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2. You agree to safe sane limits
<br>
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3. You understand and agree to what you can provide from
the ...
3 Comments,
1601 Views,
122 Votes
,5.12 Score
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truth and nothing but the truth 7/9/2005
From life experience I can tell you that lies breed hate
and mistrust so if anyone wants a relationship or marriage
to last truth and nothing but the truth no matter what lie
to me good-bye, tell me the truth and we will get by
1 Comments,
185 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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just wanting sex or build a relationship? 7/9/2005
i am getting frustrated with Dom's who bascially are
out for only kinky sex. *sigh* i am looking for more of a realtionship..
is it rude to want to know a Dom before You submit? why is it
some Dom's feel You should obey them from the first
hello? Is it wrong to want to know them before i submit?
*sigh*
<br>
confused jenn
1 Comments,
61 Views,
19 Votes
,7.21 Score
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knowing is not to abuse 7/6/2005
I was going to post a comment to the “Diff. between S/D relationship
& mentally abusive one? “
And then thought better of it…. Safe Sane & consensual…
yes.
The problem arises from the age old candy store syndrome
I am in the candy store and I want…
<br>
I have heard and seen Dominants and submissive who jump
in and commit to a D/s or M/s relationship from the ...
2 Comments,
269 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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how to tell one your a tg 6/30/2005
Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met
someone and things are going well thing is this person knows
nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach
this subject without hurting this person or making them
think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am
at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated
!
5 Comments,
153 Views,
15 Votes
,2.21 Score
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IS THERE ANYTHING WORSE THAN NO SHOWS? 6/26/2005
Hi friends, I'm back and want to address this issue..NO
SHOWS. Is there anything worse? I suppose there is, I've
just found that every member I ever met personallly, was
at the least, part of who they said they were..lol/
<br>
But no shows, that is the bottom of the food chain, utter
disrespect and real callousness that enflames a person's
emotions and hurts frankly.
<br> ...
5 Comments,
1000 Views,
58 Votes
,5.05 Score
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The Bee Versus The Flower 6/20/2005
Still new to being a submissive, I am always looking for
ways to understand my relationship to my Dom. While He is
completely in charge outwardly, I feel at sometimes I am
in charge inwardly. Not a powerful 'in charge, '
just a knowing within that I do have somewhat control of
what I do and do not give. He knows that to receive unwillingly
is both a waste of time and energy.
My Dom, ...
0 Comments,
670 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score
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