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trust 1/8/2007
i have given this some thought, and still havent come up
with the right answer. Is there an right answer?? How do
you let your gaurd down to trust someone? You hear of bad
things happening all the time and that scares me, we play
in a world that can be scary, but i think thats the fun of it.
But can it be taken too far?
3 Comments,
125 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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My last business trip 12/16/2006
I checked into a hotel on a business trip and was a bit lonely
so I thought I'd get me one of those girls you see advertised
in phone booths when your calling for a cab.
I grabbed a card on my way in. It was an ad for a girl calling
herself Erogonique, a lovely girl, bending over in the
photo.
She had all the right ...
0 Comments,
963 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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From first chat to collaring 12/5/2006
Dear men,
<br>
Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there
are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured
them out all ready.
<br>
Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com
or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock
shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn
a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...
9 Comments,
443 Views,
182 Votes
,7.92 Score
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No toes left 12/3/2006
Think i keep shooting myself in the foot by being to open
and honest about what i want as most "doms" just
read the profile of a sub and say "hay guess what i like
what you like".I am so sick of the fakes on here, you
can talk to a sub for a month but when you come to meet up there
always a problem!(i hear its just as bad for subs looking
for doms, they get told they are going to get used ...
0 Comments,
293 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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She is MY cunt !! 11/28/2006
She is my cunt
Look at the animal world , males battle each other to insure
their sperm lives ! now females go to be protected by a strong
male that has more than one female , in fact the scent of woman
attracts females .
I had divorce court today , first time I have really seen
my adorable lil 25 year old future ex wife in a year ..( dam
this case ...
2 Comments,
256 Views,
7 Votes
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going nowhere 11/2/2006
Hello .Iam finding it very difficult to get any response
from any of the women on this site.Its very frustrating.Im
a very shy type of person and find it difficult to express
my sexual fantasies.I know im anonymous, which makes
it easier.I want to explore and have fun but im just a loser.I
obviously am ugly or unsuitable for some reason.Being
a loner isnt easy for me.
I want to be ruled ...
3 Comments,
174 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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How long is a peice of rope? 10/22/2006
It seems to me that everyone is rushing aboput in their daily
lives. Is speed the essence of living? I believe that when
entering into a bdsm relationship, that he time taklen
to get to know yourself and that of your partner is crucial.
If not enough time is taken to self acknowledge your feelings
emotions, fantasies, etc then how can you be truthful and
open with your partner? My ...
1 Comments,
51 Views,
22 Votes
,6.37 Score
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please help... any counsellors (a women's reply would help me more) 10/5/2006
I've got a very strange problem with my girlfriend...
what do i do... please help...
i have a girl friend and she's really sweet and we both
are in love for about a year now... we both get along very
well and we understand each other perfectly... And most
of all we both respect each other very much...
But my girlfriend is having some health problems... VERY
COMPLICATED ...
4 Comments,
164 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Looking For Info 10/4/2006
I am looking for consent forms, or anything of the sort.
Trying to find forms and documents to havemy sub complete
to see what she is willing to submit too and what she isn't.
Still new at this and I haven't built up my library of
knowledge yet. If you have any please help me.
0 Comments,
111 Views,
0 Votes
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Relationships 9/22/2006
99% of relationships are based on lies
0 Comments,
157 Views,
11 Votes
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“Life as a bottoms’ top” 9/8/2006
Hello thank you for taking the time to read this rambling.
I was married to a Male Marine for over twenty years and after
all that time of (if I may modestly say) perfecting my talents
as a bottom – I find my preferences to be more toward get some
hunger hole (mouth or ass) and mercifully cramming it full
to my satisfaction with my fat dick. This is not to say I do
not enjoy the same at ...
1 Comments,
117 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Too much information too soon? 8/24/2006
Is it possible to reveal too much about one's self too
soon in a relationship?
I'm the kind of guy that will answer you truthfully
about anything you ask with little to no forethought about
the repercussions my answer may cause. Despite my usual
quietness, I'm not afraid to tell you what I think.
But, there are times when I feel that I have said a little
too much when it comes to ...
4 Comments,
238 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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reply to: how to say she's beautiful 7/27/2006
If it please you Sir. To tell a woman she is beautiful is nothing.
But to show it, that is what matters. Hear it frim a woman.
When you tell awoman she is beautiful and that you like to
sleep on her boobs she talkes it at face value. When you take
a nice long look at another woman passing by on the street
you just erased your past 5 compliments. You must let it
show that she is hot. If you ...
2 Comments,
647 Views,
97 Votes
,7.94 Score
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From Russia With Love 7/27/2006
I've met a woman from Russia on a European website.
She is 29 and I am 36. We've been writing emails back
and forth and the relationship appears to be growing into
a long distance one. She does not speak English very well
and uses a translator program to read my emails. Out of respect
I send her and email in English and another of the same content
in Russian using a free online ...
0 Comments,
53 Views,
13 Votes
,0.79 Score
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What is a submissive? 7/24/2006
Are you really submissive? the person submitting the profile
says he/she is dominant. You reply saying you are submissive.
You exchange a few emails and the dominant learns that when
you say you are submissive, you mean, you like sexual intercourse
from the standpoint of being the bottom. The person writing
you disappears. You wonder why. The answer is that being
bottom does not make ...
5 Comments,
2204 Views,
314 Votes
,5.92 Score
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How can you be sure about the other? 7/21/2006
I am wondering who else has been in this situation? You are
with a dom/sub they are already in a full relationship that
is not dealing with bdsm/alt, their other half does not
know anything about what they are into. So here is my question;
If they are not being true to the other half and telling them
nothing or lieing to them, how can you completely trust
what they are saying to you as ...
1 Comments,
192 Views,
0 Votes
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Lying submissives 7/9/2006
Submissive men sometimes lie to Mistress. This happens
when they want to present themselves as more submissive
than they are. Should a Mistress dismiss a liar? I think,
she could give him a chance to prove himself prior to dismissal.
Set him a difficult task, do not forgive a liar easily.
1 Comments,
138 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Older Women and Younger Men 6/22/2006
I see that Alt are running a Poll and the question is directed
at men. Perhaps it would interst people to know that a large
majority of Fem Domme/submissive relationships are where
the woman is older and the submissive is younger.
<br>
I am currently in such a relationship and the submissive
is 13 years my junior. I originally had a lot of misgivings
about just such a ...
2 Comments,
172 Views,
43 Votes
,7.70 Score
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A Mistress Speaks To Her Submissive: Regarding Chastity Devices 6/20/2006
Topically, my feelings are for the advantage of both of
us when chastity devices are employed. They include your
desire to turn over the ownership and control of your gender’s
core--your sexuality. As well as my desire to possess and
control your sexuality. (Admittedly so, this adds a flare
of excitement and sexual arousal to our relationship,
and that’s as it should be, but this too ...
2 Comments,
833 Views,
71 Votes
,6.43 Score
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Hard to find someone serious.... 6/17/2006
Me and Mt pet has been looking for a possable live in. We have
joined many of the groups for our location, have tried talking
with many possabilities. We keep running into the same
problem, someone says they are involved and or looking
to learn. Then we start talking and thats all it is is talk,
We havent found to many people actually aactive or serious
in the kind of commitment We are ...
3 Comments,
97 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Adult Nursing 3/10/2006
My very first experience with adult nursing happpened
quite by mistake. I had, had a miscarriage so my breast were
leaking. the person I was dating came over to see how I was
feeling. I mentioned to him that my breast were milking
and he said that he had always wanted to try that. I removed
one of my breast and allowed him to suckle ( I've always
had a thing for having them sucked). It ...
2 Comments,
2471 Views,
139 Votes
,5.64 Score
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How to make your gf into a Dominatrix :) 3/8/2006
Hi
What was the best way to gradually transform your gf from
a normal girl to a fun domme? Any ideas on the matter, please
share. 
1 Comments,
149 Views,
4 Votes
,0.14 Score
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nice and slow 3/1/2006
Was wondering if anyone else has experienced this. My first
marraige was kind of one of those love at first site things.
Now divorced I find myself extremely picky. That typical
anyone?
0 Comments,
132 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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False Starts 2/25/2006
I am wondering if many people on Alt experience frustration.
I sent a message to a couple that lives close by and explained
it was always my dream to interact with a male/female couple.
That very same day I recevied a message back from them. It
was very inviting. They wanted to establish friendship
first, which I always like to do before plunging into more
physical events. In my first ...
1 Comments,
300 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Dominant 101 2/17/2006
A dominant relation is one in which one person is given complete
control. By expecting this control the dominant partner
also assumes a level of responsibly for the other partner
and the relationship. It’s not all just fun and play. Your
role as the dominant requires that you to be the decision
maker and the stabling influence in the relationship.
If you’re not willing to except the ...
0 Comments,
146 Views,
52 Votes
,8.16 Score
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Training and developing subs tips 2/12/2006
Most people consider others in a cookie cutter fashion,
however in a Dom/Sub relationship there are a lot of areas
that need to be identified.
<br>
1. Does your Sub want to be obedient all the time, in the bedroom
or just from time to time.
<br>
Example. I have had subs who want to be in it all the time at
first, then only when we are together, then finally only
in the ...
0 Comments,
458 Views,
15 Votes
,5.73 Score
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nice 1/8/2006
Nice nad beauty!
1 Comments,
157 Views,
9 Votes
,1.29 Score
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I fell in Love with my slave! 1/8/2006
It's strange for me to have to admit that I, a Mistress,
fell in love with my slave. But it's true.When we met
here on alt, I was envolved with somebody else and was just
needing a friend.I met my one when I was at the point of ending
my relationship with my b/f and just needed a friend to listen,
tell me i was right or wrong without judging me.We became
very close friends over the next few ...
1 Comments,
117 Views,
34 Votes
,6.48 Score
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Building a Serious Relationship 1/8/2006
I've recently started coming back out of My sabbatical.
That's a polite way of saying I was licking My wounds
and now I think I've found out why so M/many come back.
After the last time I got "burned", I swore I'd
never return to seeking My one and only sub/slave. But I'm
hoping that I am making some headway.
I can understand why so M/many of My past F/friends have
left. T/they felt ...
1 Comments,
263 Views,
70 Votes
,8.61 Score
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"practice make perfect" 1/8/2006
the art of communication is the key to a healthy relationship...n
for most women, being in a healthy, intimate relationship
is the foundation to great SEX....
2 Comments,
116 Views,
26 Votes
,5.18 Score
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