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Getting your wife to lead 9/25/2009
Many times my wife and I have tried and failed to initiate
a D/s relationship. I always knew she was capable of being
a female dominant, based on the early years of our relationship,
but only now do I realized where I made errors.
I should never have written contracts with so many rules
and details. It's like starting at 60 mph. Even though
we both signed each time we tried, the ...
1 Comments,
174 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Is it me? 7/17/2009
Every where I read are success stories but when I try to contact
some one I do not get a response ? How do you get someone to
notice you...How ever I was not interested in , i send out
a one liner polite answer. Is it not the write thing to be
honest or what ???
5 Comments,
147 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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Slavery and Servitude 6/8/2009
Can a slave say no, it's a question to which I believe
there is no definitive answer, but to Me the answer is simply
no. Grins at this point the submissives go running to the door
screaming red light and calling 911. Simply put slavery is putting the life in the hands of their
Master and after that the slave should have two choices
obey or leave, but rationally at times a third exists beg,
and ...
2 Comments,
169 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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FUN AND FUCK 3/3/2009
HAAI..I AM A 29 YEARS GIRL ..ONE DAY ONE OF MY FRIEND CAME
TO MY HOME WITH HER HUSBOND..ACTULLY THE MISSED THIER BUS
AND CAME TO OUR HOME FOR NIGHT STAY..WE TOOK THE DINNER TOGHETER
AND THEY INCIST ME TO JOIN THEM FOR FUN I WAS THINKING BUT
SLOWELY HE STARTED TO TOUCH MY BODY..FIRST HE STARTED TO
RUB MY SHOULDER AND OPINCH MY BOOBS WHEN HE IS PLAYING WITH
MY BODY MY FRIEND STARTED TO LIFT MY ...
4 Comments,
493 Views,
26 Votes
,1.41 Score
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On relationships... 12/9/2008
Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into
a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same,
and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship
is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want
him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To
remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change
completely means that at some inner ...
1 Comments,
133 Views,
11 Votes
,6.16 Score
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How I view Serious M/s Relationships 10/20/2008
You will also find this on my profile as it would help a perspective
slave gain an understanding of my views of the M/s relationship.
I have had a couple FTPE (full time power exchange) relationships
that were really more my thing although I enjoy a "bedroom
only" M/s relationship too, I like the structure
it provides... What turns me on about it is: the total power
over someone else, ...
0 Comments,
149 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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How can I get my husband to be turned on by being dominant? 6/26/2008
I'm looking for advice on how to turn a vanilla into
a dominant. Any ideas? He will do a light hand spanking,
go from behind and make me go down on him and talk a little
dirty. However, it is rare and takes a little prodding from
me. I've tried watching porn with him and movies and
telling him what I like. I guess I feel like it sort of ruins
the scene when the submissive is trying to ...
4 Comments,
112 Views,
22 Votes
,7.33 Score
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How Well Do You Listen To You? 5/17/2008
How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay
attention to your "gut instincts"? How well
do you take action based on this information?
These gut instincts were originally named as the information
comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat
of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.
We'd like to believe that what someone tells about
themselves to be true. ...
1 Comments,
52 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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getting back with an ex 3/20/2008
i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex
that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is
my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked
up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far.
i need help. any suggestions
1 Comments,
66 Views,
0 Votes
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution 2/3/2008
Hello,
<br>
We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently
wrote. Any comments are welcome!
<br>
Happy holidays!
Sir Eric
<br>
<br>
The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution*
<br>
"You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You
own the responsibility of your property - whether it is
real estate, slaves or your ...
4 Comments,
410 Views,
32 Votes
,4.27 Score
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Bonding and Spirituality in D/s 2/3/2008
Service is an essential part in many D/s relationships
and it provides a natural way to bond between Master and
slave (or dominant and submissive -- throughout this essay
for simplicity, we will refer to the dominant as Master
and the submissive as slave). However, most service is
task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave is given
orders to complete a set of assignments. It is ...
2 Comments,
604 Views,
11 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Help needed... 10/6/2007
Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out
on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've
meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about.
So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions
from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and
looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation
and with that came the ...
7 Comments,
797 Views,
29 Votes
,5.95 Score
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Looking for a good relationship 9/23/2007
Forgive my insertion of opinion here but, .... so many people
here have voiced disappointment with the failings of a
relationship and maintaing it... so .. here's what
i think.
What many seek is M/s (Master/slave or Master/submissive)
not D/s as strictly defined.Yes, sadly it is true. Most
toppy type dominants are just bossy people who get off getting
their own way in what is typically a ...
4 Comments,
673 Views,
44 Votes
,5.24 Score
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Understanding 9/23/2007
While building up a relationship it's
very important to take two features into consideration.
1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest
tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While
a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman
approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he
tends to either ignore the woman, or ...
0 Comments,
98 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Knowing more about BDSM than your partner 7/31/2007
I have trained women who are experienced in BDSM, and on'e
who are just learning about it, and what they want to gain
from the experience. I tend to take it slower with newbies so as not to make it too
intense to start. I like to feel out whether they are just
looking to be tied up and f*cked, or if they are truly looking
to give up control at a greater level...more of a Master/slave
situation. ...
2 Comments,
172 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Belated Birthday Surprise 7/29/2007
Where is She? Where can She be? I just keep wondering. It
has been almost 45 minutes now since She called saying She
was leaving and headed my way. I have had time to check into
the Ramington Inn, get maintenance to come get the door
open for me when the key wouldn’t work, get undressed, put
the chain leashes on the bed in case She wants to spreadeagle
me on it and now it seems I have been ...
1 Comments,
103 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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How do I learn to trust again? 7/26/2007
I am a lifetime submissive. I currently am in a 24/7 with my Master. My problem is trust. Because of past issues with Doms not being honest and faithful, I am having a hard time trusting my Master.
We met a yr ago and I knew he had other slaves. He knew I was not poly and gave up his slaves and his life in CA to come live with me in a small town. However he keeps his slaves online and keeps in ...
6 Comments,
82 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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I don't understand... 6/29/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to
learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much
and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and
we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted
him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through
an extremely ...
2 Comments,
459 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Building a relationship 6/12/2007
When you want to build a relationship, first off, make sure
you are truly in love with the person. Don't confuse
love with a passing, temporary infatuation. Spend some
good, quality time with that person. Notice how often you
two have sex with each other. If after a year or two, the sex
is still great, then go for it. If not, then it's time
to call it quits before someone's feelings get ...
0 Comments,
96 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Long Distance Relationships 5/29/2007
Being in a long distance relationship, takes two people
that believe in trust. When I speak of trust, it must engulf
your entire relationship. Every day I send an email and
talk on the phone with my loved one. Sometimes I feel so good
after hearing him and other times my heart aches more not
having him with me. We never take our love for granted each
time we spend together we jam a month ...
7 Comments,
1070 Views,
69 Votes
,7.23 Score
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an offering to the internet gods 5/13/2007
One day in a moment of great emotion with my Master i uttered
the words, “i wish i could give up an offering to the
internet gods to thank them!’ my Master thought
about this and then told me that i could do just that by writing
an account of “the story so far” and posting
it as an article on alt.com for all to see. This is that account.
<br>
<br>
my story begins ...
1 Comments,
111 Views,
27 Votes
,7.76 Score
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Gaining the trust of first timer submissives 4/6/2007
I sincerely think that there are a number of so called Doms
that never listen to a submissives needs. No joking, to
build up trust is the first priority, then you can extend
limits, introduce new ideas. Whenever I have a newbie submissive
I explain what I intend to do and ask if there is anything
that they are unhappy about. If there is we discuss it, if
necessary modify the idea. ...
1 Comments,
378 Views,
17 Votes
,5.25 Score
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Proper Speech Equitete 4/3/2007
When courting a Domme, how should a new submissive act?
I was wondering, is there a proper speech etiquette when
talking when a Submissive is talking to a Domme? I'm
a little new, and I don't want to put anyone off. Are
there any words I should not say, or be hesitant in saying?
Also, when meeting in public, is there a proper way I should
act? Or should I just be ...
0 Comments,
297 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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You Cant Go Home Again -- Or Can you? 4/1/2007
Thomas Wolfe’s critically acclaimed novel, You Can’t
Go Home Again, was published in 1940. The novel chronicles
a man’s search for himself and centers on the theme that
you cannot recover the past. This novel came to my mind when
I began reading a book entitled Finding Meaning in the Second
Half of Life: How to Finally Really Grow Up by James Hollis
(2005).
Wolfe’s novel ...
0 Comments,
80 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Are Harems Okay 3/31/2007
Ive been wondering if people think that having many subs
is okay? My Master has his little harem, I call them since
I dont include myself personally in with them. Is that wrong...?
im the jealous type so it took some getting used to. But I
finally gave over control of those issues to him and asked
what I needed and now I feel better....
5 Comments,
236 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Can you ignore your nature? 3/20/2007
So ever since I was a little girl I knew that there was something
different about me. as a I enjoyed it when I got spanked, (Which
was often)LOL! I remember when I was 14 I was at gym after
school and I had a crush on a teachers aid that was 18. One
day after everyone had left, I was alone with this guy and
he asked me to come to the back office with him because he
wanted to show me ...
0 Comments,
101 Views,
15 Votes
,4.20 Score
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my take on building a relationship 3/8/2007
be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as
the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to
think about if there the perfect one because you need all
the time you can get making it the perfect one
1 Comments,
92 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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How can you build a succesfull relationship starting with a computer? 2/28/2007
Is it even possible? How can you get away with it when some
of the people you meet are married and want a discreet relationship?
Sex only is good if you know that going in but not if you don't
and are expecting something else entirely. I guess I'm
just not good at weeding out what I don't want yet.
6 Comments,
169 Views,
6 Votes
,1.37 Score
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Training by Rob Hart 2/13/2007
"I want to be trained."
<br>
These are delightful words to hear. They show desire; they
promise fun; and they speak of trust. But what does it mean
to train a submissive? It is far more than instructing a
submissive on the expectations of a particular Dominant,
or making her a good "generic slave" (there
being no such thing). It is also never a one-way flow of information
or ...
3 Comments,
894 Views,
43 Votes
,8.83 Score
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What it Means to be a slave 2/1/2007
I may have a different definition of a slave than most so
I will explain that first. For Me, a slave is not someone
who gives up their rights as human beings. A slave is someone
that in many ways must be just as strong as their Dominant.
Case in point. At a run, a Dominant may want to stay out late
and play and may not have eaten. The slave must be the one
who makes sure the Dominant ...
0 Comments,
418 Views,
25 Votes
,7.45 Score
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