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Finding the right Dom 10/28/2019
I'm finding it extremely difficult in finding a dom
who fits in with my lifestyle. I love being dominated during
play time but outside of that I require someone who is able
to treat me equally. I need a dom who respects my profession
and who is able to love me as well as dominate me. My last master
fell in love with me then was no longer able to dominate me
it was beyond frustrating. Is finding ...
8 Comments,
454 Views,
27 Votes
,5.98 Score
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How long has it taken you to be comfortable with your Dom as the submissive? Females... 10/2/2019
Establishing a D/s relationship takes time to build up
trust, chemistry and the ability for a sub to let go. How
long has it taken you to get there?
5 Comments,
50 Views,
14 Votes
,3.62 Score
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Chinese slaves 7/12/2019
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
1 Comments,
39 Views,
7 Votes
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Chinese slaves 7/12/2019
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
3 Comments,
87 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Chinese slaves 7/12/2019
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
2 Comments,
57 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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A day in the life of a 24/7 slave 7/12/2019
It is rarely the big events that make a relationship, it
is a million small touches, a million small submissions,
a constantly evovling gift between two people that for
me looks like this.
i am often asked by friends, both lifestyle and vanilla,
what being a slave means, or what it looks like in the day
to day. So here it is.
5:45 am...yes way before the sun comes up my day ...
9 Comments,
576 Views,
24 Votes
,5.86 Score
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Married & D/s 7/12/2019
Reading many clips on
lifestyle relationships during my journey, it never came
across O/our thoughts that it would have a negative impact
on the relationship. Majority of the posting based marriage
& D/s together as negative. In that it would have a negative
affect or effect on the relationship. Feelings of such
would hinder O/ones role and performance.
...
5 Comments,
126 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Online Relationships 7/12/2019
Do online relationship really progress to reality?
In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM
and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online.
Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women,
but no man has captured my time and attention enough for
me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.
Do you think its because once ...
4 Comments,
218 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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new to this 7/12/2019
hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested
in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested
in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it
goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses
salisburycpl2...
6 Comments,
117 Views,
9 Votes
,1.72 Score
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Early Stages of Online Relationships 7/12/2019
Something catches your eye about their post... You may
like something they said, perhaps the site has told you
he was the match for you, or maybe the smile said this is a
genuine person, I want to get to know... <br><br>
What is online is often so far from the real person that you
can’t begin to imagine, later, when you look back, what
was the connection in the first place... One ...
13 Comments,
152 Views,
33 Votes
,4.89 Score
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minus three extremities.. 7/12/2019
everything but intercourse or giving, the session
is $80 a limited time Nicholasville, Kentucky. See my <br><br>
website www.commodityadult.com <br><br>
And more freevideos www.commodityadult.com model/candyCastle <br><br>
And live now free on webcam www.commodityadult.com blog/WineForCandy <br><br>
Passionate. I enjoy foreplay, passion, slow, ...
1 Comments,
7 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Who does what even in Femdom 7/2/2019
It appears that in many cases it is up to the man to begin the
communication and continue building the relationship
from that start. That is, being the aggressor at the beginning
of the relationship. Even in a female lead relationship.
2 Comments,
86 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Subs Are Born Not Made 5/28/2019
I very fortunate in having vast and varied experience
at sharing the D/s experience with female subs who are truly
authentic in their sexual submissiveness. Authentic
subs are submissive at their core. They don’t to
be trained to be a sub. It is as natural as breathing to them.
They already know and feel it inside. The authentic sub
simply needs to be brought to and express her natural and ...
4 Comments,
60 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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You Should Not Give Away That Which You Value! 5/24/2019
I am very curious as to the reasoning for a Dom who insists
on sharing his sub with his friends or/and animals. Why?
When a submissive gives their all to a Dom/Master it is one
very big deal! To trust another with your heart is giving
a lot but to trust another with your physical safety, to
let them have the power to advise you, to punish you and to
use you at their will is an incredible ...
1 Comments,
184 Views,
166 Votes
,9.14 Score
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Hard to find a mate 5/19/2019
I know this might sound like whinning, but is it getting
harder to find someone that is compatible with you, specially
if they are not in the same area?
<br>
It seems that we want relationships but aren't willing
to make sacrafices (relocation, change in status, etc.).
Maybe I am wrong but what is the opiion of you guys?
1 Comments,
45 Views,
16 Votes
,4.74 Score
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QUALITIES OF A DOMINANT FROM A SUBS VIEW 4/25/2019
When choosing to gift your submission, what is the thing
you look for above all else, if you had a top ten of traits,
qualities you look for, what would be your number 1?
4 Comments,
417 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Aftercare...Why is it so important? 4/24/2019
zennflowerAftercare
is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back
to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between
the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way
of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the
two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's
more than just play, more than just scening that the ...
14 Comments,
800 Views,
64 Votes
,8.01 Score
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man 2/2/2019
I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was
attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful
to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle
of getting a dominant lady to notice them.
Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile
carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups"
on alt so that you know how to write something that might
be ...
4 Comments,
523 Views,
20 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Out With Old In With New??? 2/2/2019
I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much.
He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing
us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she
has an 18 year old , they (the mom & him) were
bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting
& calling both mom & & not telling
me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this,
but is it right ...
2 Comments,
118 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Why Africa or Asia? 11/13/2018
Seems odd someone posting in africa or asia in variety of
language when looking. Picking a language seems easy unless
not serious.
2 Comments,
10 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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On Trust & Faith 10/28/2018
As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been
giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the
unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog
On Trust Faith. Read on!
I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly
raved essays that sounded great with all the right words
and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones
of this ...
1 Comments,
67 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Memories that now make sense 10/28/2018
When I was a young boy, there was a married Woman nearby and
they lived with her Mother. She was around 30s, attractive,
both her and the mother were well dressed and made up always.
When they went out, the woman and her mother would walk together
chatting, he would walk about 3 yards behind them being
ignored. On the return from shopping, he would be walking
behind them carrying the bags. I ...
3 Comments,
115 Views,
13 Votes
,2.64 Score
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Chinese slaves 10/28/2018
I want to tell you about a young slut I met in Shanghai.
First time I met her she was 17 years old. She was tiny with
small tits and a nice mouthwatering body. I met her in the
street where she approached me and tried to sell her services.
I turned her down and told her that she should join me for
her own good and to learn how to behave. She reluctantly
accepted and she joined me to my place. Of ...
2 Comments,
152 Views,
24 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Are people here for something more? 6/26/2018
I am only assuming here but I imagine most people here are
highly sex driven individuals; people who think about
sex for the majority of the day. Chatting is the norm, meets
are a given but what about relationships. Are people here
to find a relationship and hopefully find love? <br><br>
With standard dating sites, you get to know the person first
and then after meeting I guess the ...
0 Comments,
26 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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my new Group Stepford Women/1950s lifestyle any one can join. 5/8/2018
please join and enjoy. ...
1 Comments,
64 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Wait until you are chosen 12/28/2017
As we are all searching for the right partner. Don't
assume because you identify as a Dom it gives you the right
to instantly make demands or to disrespect someone. Untill
a sub chooses you, you are not her/his Dom. Respect is earned
not instantly given. Being chosen as a Dom is a gift not an
entitlement.
4 Comments,
45 Views,
18 Votes
,5.44 Score
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Takes Time 5/19/2017
If you want a good relationship, you need to take the time
to get to know one another. Rushing into it when you hardly
know each other usually ends up not working out.
1 Comments,
6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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EFFORT AND TIME 4/14/2017
IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP. IT TAKES
TRUST, COMMITMENT, AND COMPROMISE TO HAVE A GREAT REALATIONSHIP
WITH YOUR PARTNER.
0 Comments,
12 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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hi there 2/5/2017
I have tried all the normal dating sites and now am here.
Looking for a relationship. I have found that some of us
have an inner strength and some of us don't. Honesty,
loyalty and honor are the ground works for any good relationship.
It would seem when you are honest you run the risk of being
scorned by many. I am not saying from the moment we meet all
will be perfect, that is and would be ...
2 Comments,
118 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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Guide to Establishing Dominance 1/23/2017
Guide to Establishing Dominance
9/10/05
To be an Owner, you have to establish and maintain your authority
or dominance as the Owner and the slave's recognition
that they are a slave to you, their Owner. Rarely are you
in a committed Owner/slave relationship at the beginning
of the relationship with your desired slave. And, you will
probably never get your slave without ...
4 Comments,
2657 Views,
122 Votes
,3.49 Score
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