Blog : What’s the biggest bummer you’ve faced with trying to meet someone here?

Switch4MrRight1 57F

0 posts
3/21/2018 12:01 pm

What’s the biggest bummer you’ve faced with trying to meet someone here?

slut4abuse2014 53M/53F

36 posts
3/25/2018 6:39 am

people saying yes to meeting arrange date time and there a no show aaahhhhh ggrrrrrr

yoling 41F

3/24/2018 10:43 am

Yes~ the distance issue..especially for a asian lady~

livcat1000 34F

71 posts
3/24/2018 2:35 am

Number one..distance and a lack of time.

SD92009 66M

190 posts
3/23/2018 7:31 pm

So many fake profiles, it's becoming normal. I still don't get it with fake profiles. what's the point??.. ( what am I missing?).

Baudy52 71M

3/23/2018 1:53 pm

IMHO, There is an overwhelming inability to do what you say. Many here say, but never actually meet. I've reached the point that I try to get together for a SIMPLE coffee as a test. Seems to weed out the not-so-serious. Couple that with the jaded bunch that think only 10 years in the life is worthy of any recognition and you pretty much have the picture. Try to be a bit less intimidating people. A newbi is anxious enough.

slaaf85_91 61M

447 posts
3/23/2018 3:49 am

Most live too far away, too many are fake and there are not so many homosexual dominant men here interested in my profile.

The many trolls here make it difficult to spot real kinky people. In a local gay club it is easier to hook up. Any profile, pictures or videos can be fake. To prove that I am real I use the webcam chat. I broadcast naked with face, showing my body as it is to prove I have nothing to hide. I am used to go complete nude in some gay bars, no problem with that. Typical on alt.com, those who live too far just take me for cybersex, jerking off watching me. Some members avoid me, assuming I must be a whore to share my naked body online. Only few catch interest to chat to meet in person.

I met a number of alt com members. I first meet in a club where social control exists for a first physical contact. If I feel save i risk to go at someone's private place to have my body used. It is sometimes scaring as gay submissive, once I get tied or chained it is too late to worry about any safety.

All alt.com members required and used me for their sexual satisfaction. One was unhappy because I refused getting fucked bare, others took every now and then a new session with me. With two I developed kind of friendship, the others kept it on pure physical interaction. The profile information wasn't correct, some were actually married, but the way they enjoyed my male body proved they really needed male sex.

Being different from the majority of people as homosexual my pleasure is in being used by others...

skorpius18 71M

1342 posts
3/22/2018 9:50 pm

It seems the farther Someone is, the greater the interest.

tim4jessica 52M

8 posts
3/22/2018 5:38 pm

If they do actually meet then my biggest problem is people not being what they say they are.

rosaenaluin 65F

10951 posts
3/22/2018 12:11 pm

The men i met online here, are just in for the kinky fuckery.

dont want a commitment, just want to use my body for their fantasy..
Are totally not interested in who i am, as long as the fetishes are the same...
Yuck!

I believe you have hookers for that kind of masturbation help!?

Without a connection, there is no compatiblity, no trust, so there never will be any real surrender, just play role submission as long as the session takes...

I wont mind traveling Europe, or maybe futher? if there is a real connection?
but only after some real connection online, first, mail exchange, Skype etc...

diavoloslave 62M

202 posts
3/22/2018 6:10 am

the first 3 i have run into the most, my top one be profile pics, sucks when you go to meet someone nd the look so different you dont recognize the at a meeting spot

dirty_biker 57M

67 posts
3/22/2018 4:26 am

So many fakes, and people who don't bother turning up to meets.

looking4fat 72T

3/22/2018 3:26 am

Well, 1,2,3, and 5. But 1 is the biggest problem for me.

2 and 3 become pretty obvious after about one read through and/or chat.

But sometimes i wonder, "Is it really the distance that keeps them away? Or are they all just wanking dreamers leading me on so that they have fresh masturbation material?"

My "gurl name" is Kate Coxuker. It is who i am and what i do.

Raven_GB 63M

854 posts
3/22/2018 2:57 am

Distance. For anything kinky, it would be a very good idea to meet up first over drinks - that is not possible when the person is hundreds, if not thousands of miles away. What is your own experience?

maletramp 64M

2092 posts
3/21/2018 9:14 pm

It isn't uncommon for the closest profile of common interests is a day's drive away..

drmgirl622 68F

26003 posts
3/21/2018 3:28 pm

Believe me i don't mind traveling or flying within the USA but she has to be very special for me to travel overseas on a whim.

footer77 55M

186 posts
3/21/2018 2:54 pm

In San Diego area we do not have even 1/2 of the profiles that are in Los Angeles. LA has the traffic barrier and it takes us 2 to 4 hours to travel through there during rush hour. Not a good option. We can meet with people that are visiting but this only worked out once

jenny14 75T

90269 posts
3/21/2018 12:07 pm

My biggest is distance as I would not want to ,meet anyone in number 2 and 3!

A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny

Switch4MrRight1 replies on 3/21/2018 3:07 pm:
Me toooo!